Wednesday, July 2, 2014

Homeschool "Tip" #1 - "Scheduling"

A fairly new homeschooler (getting ready to start her 3rd year) asked me to try to put down on paper (aka blog) an explanation of what I have shown her that works for us for scheduling subjects for the year.  Note:  This is NOT a formula that works for many, maybe not even for a few, but since three different Moms have said they have implemented this (or their version of it) and benefited, I thought I would try to describe how it works for anyone that might find it useful.

The way I do scheduling makes it really easy to not stress over missed days, half days, days when we got only two subjects done because Grandma was in the hospital - you know - life happens and our philosophy is that school should not dictate life.  You know exactly when your 180 days are done - every subject is done.  It might actually be 207 days where some of those are 1/2 or 1/3 days, but you have done not only the equivalent of 180 days, but you will finish every subject (contrary to counting hours on the clock, this counts work done - sort of like the real world?!).

Before each year begins, I determine a "Daily Schedule" for each child.  I determine at that time which subjects they will cover, decide how often each week we will do that subject, and for how long each day (estimated).  Now part of it is from teacher's books (recommendation), part of it is from what I have learned works best for our family (taking into account extracurricular, social and farm activities), and part is just what we prefer to do (we work longer M-Th and only do half-day Fridays).  So, Step 1 is to make a "Daily Schedule" (see picture example).  You can find samples online for how long each subject should take your child each day to count as a "credit hour" (for High School).  This Daily Schedule is more like "Suggested Schedule" for us, since some days Math might only take 15 minutes and another day might be a test that takes an hour and a half.



[For older students I do a "High School Plan" when the student is 7th or 8th to try to determine what I think they will cover each year to be ready for any major college (yes, that's in bold because it is a working plan and what I think versus what I end up doing is pretty fluid, allowing me to plug into coops, free classes, free/cheap curriculum, different or more extracurricular as they develop special interests, etc. as the opportunity arises).  If they can do Biology in 8th instead of 10th (they are ready and it is available), mark that subject off your list as "done" and that will allow them more time for other things in 10th!]


After you determine which subjects your student will take that year, the next steps are easy.  Assuming you do a 180-day school year (doesn't matter if it's traditional or year-round or some other form such as "Farm-Comes-First-School-Comes-After" ) you then just need to determine how many days of the 180 you will do each subject.  For instance, we do a full year of Math in 144 days (giving us one "Math Free" day per week, which we chose to be on Fridays).    I look at the book(s) and determine how many Lessons/Tests, etc. there are to finish that subject (be sure to include in your count days for tests, quizzes, labs, etc.).  Then schedule that number of days (e.g. Days 1- 144 then you're done for Math).  If for some reason your child is sick, or you have to take an emergency day off and they all fall on Tuesdays, then yes, you might have more Math to finish at the end of the year than say Science, if the latter is only done on Monday, Wednesday and Thursday.  No sweat.  "School" or "This Year" is only "done" when all the days for all the subjects are done.  Is it as clear as muddy water yet? (My Dad used to love to say that - - !)

So, for example, you do Science (the whole book including labs, quizzes and tests) for 108 days a year (I like to use multiples of 36 to keep the subjects somewhat easier to schedule), which is three days a week, you just take the whole of your year, and divide it into 108 days.  Yes, some days your student will do Science for 30 minutes and some days it will be 2 hours, even though your "Daily Schedule" plans for 1 hour each of the three days, but it's amazing how it so often evens out overall for the day (one subject longer than usual, two others a bit shorter, etc.).  And our focus again is not on hours in school but actual work accomplished (guess by now you've figured out that I am a big proponent for people earning what they accomplish, not in putting in hours - how great we can teach our children this lesson from an early age!)  Just take each subject, schedule it out into the number of days you want.

One other note - be sure to include a realistic time for non-academic things (chores, extracurricular, travel time, etc.) and of course take into account practical aspects such as subjects that require more attention from Mom being done during baby's nap time, middle school son being at his best during mid-morning to tackle his least-liked subjects, Dad working night shift and needing to sleep on Thursday and Friday mornings, etc. when scheduling specific subjects and times.  The key is - do what is best for YOUR family.  Your schedule will look different than anyone else's and the only time you need to be strict about exactly when something is scheduled and done is when it involves other families, coops, outside classes, etc.
It's a tricky balancing act to level out flexibility and discipline, academics and spiritual growth, social activities and family time, but it is worth every effort to read, revise, rework and reward what works best for your family situation.  Don't compare or compete with others, just enjoy this special blessing of the time spent with your children.  In other words, just find what works for you.

Lastly, never forget that character is more important than academics.  If you teach them diligence, stewardship, honesty and respect they will learn academically whatever they need to when they need it (i.e. it doesn't matter if you spent "too much" time on Ancient History and "too little" time on American History), and more importantly they will carry that character with them throughout every aspect of their lives, as well as through the years.  I always remind others that Character trumps Academics because I need to hear the reminder myself.  Constantly. Continually. Carefully.  Most of all, prayerfully.

Have fun scheduling!  I wish I enjoyed grading assignments as much as I enjoy planning them!


Friday, June 13, 2014

I Grew Up Rich

I grew up rich.
Don't let the tattered hand-me-downs,
Or rusted out floorboards
In the sputtering Chevy fool you.
Where the best, if any, meat on the table
Was a deer or rabbit
Or maybe a squirrel caught in
The sight of Daddy's rifle.
The thin, cold sheets on the squeaky, shared beds,
Pinto beans and cornbread suppers -
Again -
Don't give the secret away.
For we were wealthy beyond measure.
Not just a Mama and Daddy
Who loved us, corrected us, taught us,
Modeled character and
Prayed for us each day and night.
But more relatives and friends
Than gold bars in Fort Knox.
Grandparents, cousins, Uncles and Aunts,
Even Great Uncles who teased us
And Great Aunts who made blue-ribbon jams
If the weather was good enough
To be blessed with berries.
Days spent laughing and running,
Hours spent in church and praying for others,
Minutes spent to purchase sweet memories,
Lessons of life that last beyond life,
Still usable and spendable after others are gone.
Passed on by will and choice
To the next generation.
Love from our Eternal Father,
Priceless gift of His salvation
And blessing of His Lordship,
Lived out in love by others,
The greatest treasure.
I grew up rich.

The Love of Jesus

The love of Jesus
Is what remains
When death takes from us
All of life's gains.
So if it's glory
That you chase
Remember the end
Of life's swift race.
Run for the prize
That does not fade.
The love of Jesus
Is why you were made.

The Heaviest Weight

I used to think that the heaviest weight was the pressure of "success" doing well at school, career, family.  Then I found myself expecting a wonderful miracle and thought "Oh, the heaviest weight is trying to do things "right" for this child so that I will not mess him/her up really badly."  That weight continued and multiplied with each child, added to the weight of "success" and "marriage", it is just amazing that my back wasn't crushed into "smithereens" (one of our second son's favorite childhood words).  Then you divide your time and energy between how you look/feel/handle stress, etc., subtract any sense of completion and you have the perfect equation for a screaming woman.

And that was life.  For far too long.  I knew I was supposed to remember and believe "..my yoke is easy and my burden is light", I knew I was not to "worry about tomorrow" and to trust the One who counts the numbers of hair on our heads.  I knew lots of scripture, and good advice, and knowledge which came with experience.  Over and over others would remind me what I knew myself - this was not the way life for a Christian was supposed to be.  So another day, another good ole college try, another frustrating look back over the hours.  Truly I loved my Lord and Savior.  Truly I loved my family even when sometimes I didn't especially like them (or them like me).  But there were two problems entangling and strangling me.  First, I thought I knew what love was but had no idea what true agape love looked like.  As I heard recently it was "sloppy agape", not really consistent, not even truly loving for the full benefit of the recipient instead of me.  Secondly, I still had a really, really heavy burden.  It is worse than kryptonite for Superman but it is the most real, most binding burden.  No, it's not sin.  That's the second heaviest.  It is only four little English letters long but it is so heavy, so saturating that there is no hope for us to ever rid ourselves of the weight.  S - E - L - F.  period.  That is the heaviest weight, and that is the one that we don't have to carry.  Turning myself over to the one whose "yoke is easy" is the most wonderful choice, the most freeing choice.  Unfortunately, it is a daily choice and sometimes I still forget and take that weight back on my feeble back.  Will you remind me?  Will we remind each other?  His yoke is truly, honestly, lovingly, a relief and very light.  It's our own selfish burden that is heavy.  Remind me, and I will remind you.  Together we can dance, maybe even fly we will be so light!

Friday, March 28, 2014

The Ultimate Oximoron

This past week our pastor said there were two words that could never be spoken together.  He read from Acts 10 regarding Peter's rebuttal of the Lord's command to eat "unclean" food.  How often I have said those words "No Lord" (or "Never, Lord" or "Not So, Lord").  He pointed out that we can say "Why Lord", "How Lord" or best yet, "Help Me, Lord" but two words that cannot be spoken together -
NO
LORD
We either say No or we say LORD.  Period.  (Ouch!)

Wednesday, March 19, 2014

Only One Life

"Only one life,
'twill soon be past,
Only what's done
for Christ will last."

Oh, Master help me
   be wholly Thine,
Only a branch 
   to Your Holy Vine.
Help me, O Christ 
   as I work for You,
Only your Glory 
   in all that I do.
Each waking thought,
   each action and deed,
Only Your will,
   wherever You lead.
If this is the day
   that is all that is left,
Only Your praise
   be my final breath.
Refiners fire 
   cannot be tamed
Only true gold
   withstands the flame.

"Only one life,
'twill soon be past,
Only what's done
for Christ will last."



Tuesday, March 11, 2014

HE

HE cannot be described, 
   but HE can be shared.
HE cannot be understood,
   but HE can be felt.
HE cannot be seen,
   but HE can be followed.
HIS Love cannot be duplicated,
  but It can be our example.
HIS Mercy cannot be measured,
   but It can be accepted.
HIS Wisdom cannot be contained,
   but It can be gathered.
His Grace cannot be ended,
   but It can give us eternity.